(¯`v´¯)When you really love a person, you will be able to accept the person's mistakes, past, background and also his/her bad points...Cuz when you really love him/her, u will find that all these are no longer important and you wont mind anything that he/she did before...Even if a guy is not able to support a girl, the girl will also accept him...This is true love...When you only accept someone who is rich, you are only finding someone who will have the ability to take care of you, finding someone who can give you money to spend and buy watever you wants...Do not beg the other party to buy things for you as u will let the other party tink that you are in a relationship with him/her just to get some benefits...And if he/she wanna buy things for you, unless u know that he don't really have the ability to do so, please accept it...As the other party might feel sad and at the same time insecure...(¯`v´¯)
(¯`v´¯)Loving a person doesn't mean you can control him/her...Everyone needs freedom...Mayb it's becuz he/she does not know that you meant well for her but just let him/her be as it might bring pressure for him/her and might ended up in a break up...As time goes by, he/she might be able to change and realise wat you mean by trying to control him/her...Time is the most important medium in a relationship...Without it, no one will be able to realise wat the other party is meaning...(¯`v´¯)
(¯`v´¯)As there are many ups and downs in a relationship, quarrel is a must in every relationship...Although quarrelling isn't a good thing but it can helps maintain the relationship and keeps the bond strong in some ways...Only by that then you will know where you stand in your bf's/gf's heart...Never quarrel with him/her regarding another person...Even if a couple quarrels everyday, this does not mean that the relationship does not worth anything in each others mind...Sometimes when your love one quarrel with u, it's becuz he/she love u and wish that everything you did is good...In chinese, it means he/she ZAI HU NI...Everyone takes time to totally understand each other...Not short, but a long one...It really takes a long time to totally understand someone...U can feel it when you totally understands a person...Wat he/she likes, feels, wants and need...(¯`v´¯)
(¯`v´¯)In a relationship, misunderstanding each other's meaning cannot be avoid...To clear those misunderstandings, best is to tell each other...Keeping it in the heart will make each other more miserable...But some things are better to keep in the heart to prevent making the other party more miserable(Better Not)...Only do this when you really love the other party and also when the thing you did isn't that bad...If not you will be letting him/her down...Trust, understanding, faith and also care are the definitions to LOVE...To adopt all these in a relationship, each couple have to say out anything that is on each other's mind...Love rules in this world as it's the only thing that bring true happiness to a girl or a boy...Never ever look down on the power of love...(¯`v´¯)
Be sure to give your gf/bf some surprises along the way...It's a very good way to keep your relationship excited...just a simple surprise will get your gf/bf jumping...Always be by their side when they are in need of help or especially when they need someone to accompany them...He/she might say that they dun need help or dun need you and ask you to do your own things but in their mind they do not think so...So try to understand a girl's/guy's mind...
(¯`v´¯)When you miss each other, dun hesitate to let each other know...Only by telling them then they will realise how much u miss them and how important they are in your heart...The pain of missing a person is unbearable...Although he/she is not by your side but a simple call or just a sms will ease your pain...If he/she is not able to do so, look at photos or think about the times when both of you are with each other...(¯`v´¯)
(¯`v´¯)Love is a mistake;Love is a war;Love is a struggle;Love is a battle...Wat is love? To me, love is a growing up...From many past relationships, i've learnt how to treasure someone who truly treats me well...Although there are many ups and downs in between, but i always will not forget to treasure her...Sometimes ppl ask you:"Wats the feeling of being love? Wats the feeling of loving someone? To love or to be loved?" Being loved is sweet...But if you do not love the person, you have to say so...If not it will bring misery to the person...Same as to love...If you love a person and not being loved in return? How would you feel? It's exactly the same feeling...Bei Ai Shi Xing Fu, Ai Ren Shi Tong Ku...Loving someone needs alot of courage...(¯`v´¯)